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If
a Friend feels led to travel in the ministry, what is the process being
used? If there is none, what would a Friend in your yearly meeting
do who felt such a call?
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Some Illinois YM Friends have
tested their leadings through clearness committees before making travel
plans. Others have made their plans, then asked for a minute or letter
of introduction. Some just go, like one Friend who, with neither
support nor opposition from his meeting, faithfully visited a neighboring
meeting for over a year, because he felt led to.
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Meetings generally form a clearness
committee for anyone who asks. Some monthly meetings, after some
clearness process, have granted travel minutes. At least one meeting,
after reaching clearness, asked the yearly meeting to grant a travel minute.
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Any document introducing a Friend
tends to be called a "travel minute;" some do not indicate such a clearness
process.
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Some meetings have been willing
to help with money, but unwilling to associate the trip with any idea of
ministry. Sometimes Friends seem dismayed at the idea of trying to
distinguish, for themselves or for another, between a leading and a personal
want or whim.
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It may be difficult for Friends
to identify their internal sense of leading to travel in the ministry,
in those terms--and then, difficult to make that sense of leading known.
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"Most Friends seem not to understand
the rationale of the old system."
How are Friends who
feel called to ministry being nurtured and supported? How do your local
meetings deal with their members who are called to a ministry, or to travel
among Friends? In what ways does your yearly meeting support the
monthly meetings in this ongoing nurture?
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We are better at supporting
work, sometimes with money or labor, than we are
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at
discerning what work to do or how to go about it.
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Our clearness
committees are more often about personal issues or problems than about
calls to ministry.
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Friends
may become involved with FGC or FWCC as a way to get support; some Friends
may have enrolled in Earlham School of Religion or another seminary to
get nurtured and supported.
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There
are under-currents of concern lest granting money for travel lead to many
requests for funding for personal enrichment, or to jealousies.
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It seems
risky to say "yes" and support an appropriate volunteer, when we don't
know how to say "no" to an inappropriate one.
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"The people
who are active in the meeting support each other."
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"Friends
who are active are appreciated and thanked a lot."
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"Sometimes,
Friends just go to the areas of meeting life where their gifts call them."
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Some wish
there were ways to help our meetings discover and name the gifts of their
members.
How are Friends who
are engaged in ministry or traveling in the ministry held accountable?
Is there a common understanding and practice among monthly meetings, or
not? How does your yearly meeting understand, support, and encourage
ongoing accountability?
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We have a strong fear of being
judgmental, or even seeming judgmental.
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We assume things are fine and
try not to meddle, until we hear of a disaster.
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We expect service to the meeting
and take it for granted, but voice criticism when things don't turn out
the way we expect.
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Sometimes what one Friend notices
as good, another finds unexceptional or problematic, and complains about.
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Framing reactions as individual
opinion gives their individual holders right to be pleased or upset, without
claiming any
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