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In
November of 2002, the Traveling Ministries Committee of Friends General
Conference hosted a consultation, providing a context for Friends to discuss
these matters. Delegates from twelve yearly meetings reflected on
how these functions are currently being carried out among us--and how they
might be carried out.
Delegates
were asked to respond to queries about these matters, in preparation for
the consultation. As the only delegate from Illinois Yearly Meeting,
I approached this preparation by conducting a series of interviews with
a broad assortment of IYM Friends. I compiled the results as the
responses below, attempting to honor the diversity of perspectives I received.
How are gifts of ministry
acknowledged in your monthly meetings and yearly meeting? Is there
a common practice or does each meeting make up its own process?
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There is no process for acknowledging
gifts of ministry common to Illinois YM meetings. Since our meetings
rarely intend to do this, they do not often make up processes for it.
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We sometimes acknowledge past
acts of ministry by minutes of appreciation; sometimes this happens
when it is long overdue, with the person obviously feeling deeply unappreciated.
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There is a widespread practice
that is informal and individual: deliberately noticing and appreciating
words or actions that have been helpful, thus encouraging the speaker or
doer. Most or all of our meetings include Friends aware of a conscious
commitment to do that.
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Many feel uncomfortable with
the terms "ministry" and "gift." Some see ministry as unpredictable
but egalitarian, unlikely to strike in the same place twice.
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One Friend was mentioned by
several, who not only recognized gifts but mentored the people in whom
those gifts occurred.
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